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  • Writer's pictureDerrick Heydon

Love and Legacy: The Joy of the Anniversary Dance at Weddings

Photo Credit: Shannon Sack Photography

Amidst all of the joyous festivities on your wedding night, one special moment stands out—the Anniversary Dance. This heartwarming tradition not only brings all generations to the dance floor but also pays tribute to enduring love stories, particularly those of couples who have surpassed the remarkable milestone of 40+ years of marriage.

In this blog post, we'll be diving into the significance of the Anniversary Dance, explore how Crown DJ's puts their unique spin on the tradition, and suggest some timeless songs that can enhance the experience.

#1 The Anniversary Dance

This particular moment is a cherished wedding tradition because it honors the enduring power of love. It would typically takes place shortly after the Newlywed's First Dance, drawing attention to the couples in attendance who have already walked down the path of matrimony. This dance symbolizes the admiration and respect for the commitment, wisdom, and longevity that these couples embody.

Older couples, who have dedicated their lives to nurturing a successful marriage, especially appreciate the Anniversary Dance. For them, it serves as a beautiful reminder of their own journey and an opportunity to impart wisdom and inspiration to the Newlyweds. It instills a sense of hope and belief in the lasting power of love, reaffirming their faith in the institution of marriage.

#2 Crown DJ's Unique Twist

At Crown DJ's, we like to add a unique twist to the traditional Anniversary Dance that makes this moment even more special than it already is. At the beginning of the song, the DJ will invite all married couples, young and old, to the dance floor, creating an inclusive and heartwarming atmosphere. The DJ will be playing a song that resonates with the emotions of love and commitment.

After approximately 1:00 to 1:30 into the song, the DJ begins the process of gradually eliminating couples based on the duration of their marriage. Starting with the Newlyweds, who have the least amount of time embarking on their marital journey, couples are asked to leave the dance floor in ascending order of their marriage length. As the song progresses, the DJ's skillful curation heightens the excitement, building anticipation for the final reveal.

By the end of the song, the longest married couple in attendance emerges as a beacon of love and commitment. Crown DJ's takes a moment to congratulate this couple on their remarkable achievement, honoring their dedication and resilience in maintaining a long, happy, and successful marriage. To symbolize the passing of wisdom and blessings, the Newlyweds are then invited to dance with the longest married couple for a song, creating a beautiful connection between the beginning and the culmination of a lifelong journey.

#3 Timeless Songs for the Anniversary Dance

Choosing the perfect song for the Anniversary Dance isn't as crucial as it might be for other moments in the evening, but it still can be fun. From new to old, here are a few of my favorite timeless songs that compliment the significance of this special dance:

  • "Lover" by Taylor Swift (2019)

  • "Perfect Duet" by Ed Sheeran & Beyonce (2018)

  • "Tennessee Whiskey" by Chris Stapleton (2015)

  • "All Of Me" by John Legend (2014)

  • "Then" by Brad Paisley (2009)

  • "I Cross My Heart" by George Strait (1992)

  • "Forever And Ever, Amen" by Randy Travis (1987)

  • "Wonderful Tonight" by Eric Clapton (1977)

  • "Can't Help Falling In Love" by Elvis Presley (1961)

  • "Cheek To Check" by Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong (1959)


The Anniversary Dance at weddings celebrates the enduring power of love by adding an element of excitement and anticipation, culminating in a beautiful connection between Newlyweds and the longest married couple.

As the dance floor fills with generations of love stories, the songs chosen for this special moment serve as a backdrop to the emotions and memories being shared. The Anniversary Dance encapsulates the beauty of commitment, the wisdom of long-lasting relationships, and the hope it instills in those beginning their own journeys.

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